Saturday 9 April 2022

More Thought Provoking Questions

Welcome to a sunny South Manchester. The weather is cold – we even had wintry showers yesterday – but the trend for the temperature is going in the right direction. Enough about the English weather (something that typically gets a bad press worldwide but can be quite beautiful).

Let’s dive in with some thought-provoking questions from Sunday Stealing

1. Do you own your things or do your things own you?

I own my things – with two exceptions. The exceptions are Ziggy and Star(dust) my two cats who own me. In fact, as I type, Star(dust) is sitting on my desk staring at me with a look of total disdain because, in her mind, it is time for her lunchtime food. It is however, forty minutes too early and she is going to have to wait. 

I know the drill. She will watch me for a while, then she will lie down and start to attack my fingers as I type, playfully at first and then with a little more aggression. That said, she isn’t violent at all. The last thing she will do is just flop on my keyboard. In fact she managed to do that a month ago, resulting in me sending a half complete email to my manager at work. 

I told him that the cat sent it for me and he thought I was losing what remained of my marbles.

Oh – the flopping looks like it is coming gfu/E’LGHQHGEHBGGILKHW43 WTO’WGJ’W

Yes – she flopped onto my keyboard and I thought I would leave the contribution for you to enjoy. 

I shall add Star(dust) to the writing credits for this post. I think I will feed her now.

2. Would you rather lose all of your old memories or never be able to make new ones?

I would probably go for not being able to make new ones. The reason is that I have cameras that can record those new memories, recording images and videos from now on that I will at least be able to look at in the future. You can’t do that with the past if you don’t have the photos. 

It would effectively make technology the new means of making new memories.

3. When you are 80-years-old, what will matter to you the most?

I can’t predict the future but I hope that when I am 80 years old, that I will be physically fit and able to think like I do at the moment. It’s only two decades away so I reckon that as long as I am fully compos mentis and can walk around it will be pretty much the same as today.

4. What do you have that you cannot live without?

Lots of things – my house, my phone, my glasses, my health and all the other things that contribute to my peace of mind and my life. I could make a list but it would be long and boring to read.

5. When you close your eyes what do you see?

Not a lot because my eyes are closed. However, usually closing my eyes leads me to start falling asleep or at least meditating somehow. And that leads to my mind’s eye opening and me catching a flight into my imagination, which, as you can envisage, is a very weird place to be. 

6. What sustains you on a daily basis?

Food and drink, of course, like everybody else.

7. What are your top five personal values?

Honesty – I try to be honest with everyone and I hope others are honest back.

Kindness – There is nothing more powerful than an act of kindness. I wish I could be kinder myself.

Empathy – I try to be empathic and put myself in the position of other people. It doesn’t always work but when it does it really helps.

Trustworthiness – My favourite people are those that I trust and can rely upon. I try to be trustworthy myself.

Humility – I regard myself as a humble person and as a result I think I can handle stress in a better way. I’m humble and happy as a result.

8. What personal prisons have you built out of fears?

In the past I was a very shy person and it stopped me doing a lot of things. This changed when I left home for university and had to face those fears; I forced myself to join in things despite the fact that they were outside my comfort zone. Effectively I managed to break out of the glass prison of shyness; glass because you can see what you are missing. While some of those prisons still exist, I am much better at breaking out of them now. I have a really big hammer.

9. What one thing have you not done that you really want to do?

Travel the world. Okay – yes I have travelled to a lot of countries, 36 and counting. But there are 195 countries in the world so the percentage is about 18%. I see that as something that I can improve upon. 

10. If you haven’t achieved it yet what do you have to lose?

Absolutely nothing. And I am chipping away at this target slowly but surely. As time goes on I will have more time to see more countries and we are certainly planning to see a few more over the coming years. If I win the lottery in the meantime it will accelerate things – that’s for sure.

11. What three words would you use to describe the last three months of your life?

Hopeful, exciting and positive.

The next three months should be even better. 

We have booked a trip abroad to Spain in June. It will be almost three years since I have left the UK - three years too long. 

12. Is it ever right to do the wrong thing?  Is it ever wrong to do the right thing?

The answer to both is yes. There are situations where, for example, it might be a good thing to do to tell somebody a home truth and other occasions where it might be better to keep somebody in the dark. There are examples where I have done both in the past.

13. How would you describe ‘freedom’ in your own words?

To be honest, I don’t think that anybody is really free. I used to think that maybe we were free here in the UK but recent political events have proven otherwise. For example, in 2015, I was free to move to any country in the European Union and live there with no visa and no hassle. Since 2020 that is no longer the case; I have effectively had part of my freedom taken away from me.

I believe that the UK is one of the most “free” countries in the world, if not the most free. I know that the US prides itself on its “freedom” but, like the UK, this is jingoistic sometimes. 

Take US gun laws for example. Americans are free to bear arms but this ends up in disaster when some nutcases are free to commit mass murder.

I would therefore define freedom at the political level as an illusion.

True freedom on Earth doesn’t exist.

Wow – that sounded really deep and negative. I’m sorry about that – normal service will be resumed in the next question hopefully.

14. What is the most important thing you could do right now in your personal life?

Retire. I am 20% of the way there and now that I don’t work Friday I am much happier.

15. If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich?

Travel writing probably. I don’t think I am a good enough writer but if I could convince somebody to let me travel the world as a job and write reports about where I had been I would be a lot happier. I may even postpone retirement to do so. To be honest, though, I would prefer to do it under my own steam because the idea of still having to report to somebody who is telling me where to go and what to do isn’t the most ideal situation. I have had people telling me what to do since 1984 and I am fed up of it.

I like the idea of being my own boss.


14 comments:

Elephant's Child said...

Oh yes, Jazz owns us, just as Ziggy and Stardust own you. He is often a very demanding owner too.
You are right about freedoms too. Mind you, a subset of people interpret freedom as something for them only. They are free to not consider the needs/wishes of anyone else. And I would like to see those people further restricted than they are...

Bev Sykes said...

I think you would make a great travel writer.

Stacy said...

We are hoping for the same things at 80. After working with those who have dementia, I am really very concerned about keeping my marbles. Dementia is a cruel fate.
Giggling over the cats, too. I didn't actually think of my cat as a possession as I'd have to say I am his. Whenever I am using the laptop he thinks he needs to sit on my chest with his head tucked under my chin. That means my arms are pinned under him because he is a Maine Coon and rather long.
The weather here (Pennsylvania) is heading in the right direction, too...even though we had a "lovely" mix of rain, snow, sleet, and even hail today.
Have a great week!

River said...

#3: when I'm 80 I expect my family will mean the most to me, just as they do now and hopefully there will be a great-grandchild or two in the mix by then.

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi EC,

I agree totally with what you are saying about how some people interpret freedom.

:o)

Cheers

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Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Bev,

It's something I have dablled with before, real rough, ready and raw travelogues for Australia, China and Japan.

I might do another one for the next log haul trip.

:o)

Cheers

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Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Stacey,

I've never seen a Maine Coon in the fur (so to speak) but I would love to meet one. I don't think that my desk would be big enough to support one plus my keyboard plus a mouse too. It would be fun to check that out though.

:o)

Cheers

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Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi River,

I've got to become a grandparent first (not looking forward to it I have to say because then that will mean that I am really old).

:o)

Cheers

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Kwizgiver said...

How you explained your 5 values is meaningful. I also chose retirement for my personal goal.

CountryDew said...

You can be a travel writer and be your own boss if you freelance. In fact, I bet you could go back over some of your trips to places and send them in to magazines that use travel writing right now. You're a much better writer than you give yourself credit for.

Susan said...

You have done a lot of traveling! I liked what you wrote about freedom, and you are right about the gun control. I have to agree about pets, they do control us in many ways!

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Kwizgiver,

Yes - I can't wait to retire.

:o)

Cheers

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Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi CD,

Maybe I could do that. I have quite a few tales.

:o)

Cheers

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Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Susan,

I've travelled but I want to do more. And my cat is waiting for me to finish this because she is hungry again. I am just a dogsbody (or catsbody).

:o)

Cheers

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