Sunday 31 May 2020

Conversation Starters - Part 2



Day 69 of lockdown and the sun is shining on what is a beautiful day here in South Manchester UK. I’ve already been for a five mile walk with Mrs PM down by the River Mersey, trying to avoid other walkers, joggers and cyclists.
There are already measures being taken to ease the lockdown slowly. From tomorrow we can meet up to six people either in a public place or somebody’s garden as long as we social distance and don’t go into the house. The exception is to use the toilet of course but we are meant to thoroughly clean it afterwards. I could use this to my advantage and invite friends around on the proviso that they clean my lavatory when they have finished to save me the job of doing it myself. 
Also, great news! Football will be back in a couple of weeks so we get to see the Premiership played in empty stadiums to finish off the season. Mrs PM is not very enthusiastic about that at all. I wonder why?
Anyway – time to answer some sill question from Sunday Stealing
Let’s dive in, shall we?

1. What do you think is the greatest television show of all time?
That’s a tricky one. Here are ten shows that I have really enjoyed over the course of my life. There are others at the edge of my memory but these are the ones that immediately leapt to mind. If I thought about it more, I would have a different list.

Babylon 5
Game of Thrones
Stranger Things
Dexter
Sons of Anarchy
Star Trek: Deep Space Nine
The Walking Dead
Breaking Bad
Dr Who
Peaky Blinders

2. Would you rather win a Nobel Prize or an Academy Award?
I would like to think that I made a difference to the world and basically, being an actor isn’t going to solve anything. So definitely a Nobel Prize.

3. What one food would you banish from this earth if you could?
Rhubarb.
 It is the only food that makes me feel physically sick with the thought of putting it past my lips. I had to endure it as a child and to avoid eating it I actually hid it under the table at school. 
We used to have a teacher who forced you to eat food – a real nasty Irish teacher with a voice so shrill that it could shatter reinforced glass. I managed to palm it off on one of my weirder friends who loved rhubarb. And allowed the Irish harpy from force feeding it to me. 
I am feeling quite queasy at the moment just thinking about it.

4. What’s the scariest story you’ve ever heard?
Top 3:

Boris Johnson becoming the UK Prime Minister
The United Kingdom shooting itself in the balls and leaving the European Union
Donald Trump becoming President of the United States of America.

The world has gone mad.

5. Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
I met Thunder back stage in 2005. They are a British rock band responsible for hits like this.

Here is proof.



I also had the chance to meet another of my favourite female rock singers, Anneke van Giersbergen,  but before I knew who she was. I stood by, about three feet away, as my mate got her autograph. I took a photo of the two of them. 
I am so gutted now because she was just a support act, and I didn’t know who she was and that she had worked a lot with another musical hero of mine, Devin Townsend. If I had known, I would have insisted on a photo with her and gushed like a tiny schoolboy. Here she is, singing with Devin Townsend – what an amazing voice she has:


6. What’s something you’ve done that most people wouldn’t know or guess about you?
I’ve had a disagreement with a Russian Kremlin guard while queuing up to get into the Kremlin itself in Moscow.
I’m terrified of heights but I have climbed the Sydney Harbour Bridge. 
I am a bloody idiot.

7. You’re strapped in a rocket ship about to go to the moon. Are you thrilled? Or terrified?
I am absolutely terrified. My brain is not wired to cope with taking a rocket to the moon.

8. What is the correct way for toilet paper to sit on the roll?
Like this:

And it must be within easy reach of the person perched on the toilet of course. 

9. Talk about a mistake you made, or something you regret.
I wish that I had continued learning languages after school. I studied French for five years and German for three years and when I started my A-levels I could actually speak them quite well, certainly well enough to have a simple conversation with a native when I travelled to Europe for two month long trips during the summer while I was at university. I was fine in Germany and France and really should have kept it up. It is a source of constant frustration when travelling that I can’t converse with people in their own language very well.

10. What would be the best gift I could give you?
Enough money to be able to retire tomorrow.

11. What makes you feel better when you’re sad or stressed?
Listening to music, going for a walk or escaping into a good book or TV drama.

12. What is the most romantic movie you’ve ever seen?
I don’t like romantic films, as a rule, because the plots are all identical and ludicrously so in most cases. The only one I have watched more than once and genuinely laughed at is Notting Hill. I still think it’s not that great but it is the best of a bad bunch.

13. What is the worst date you’ve ever been on?
Funnily enough, I was talking about this yesterday. I had decided to go to the cinema to see the first Superman movie. Nobody else wanted to see it so I was happy to go on my own. My sister’s friend heard about this and invited herself to go with me. 
I remember when she turned up at my house to go, she was dressed up like she was going on a proper date, with excessive make-up and high heels and instantly alarm bells began to ring. I realised with horror that she had a crush on me. I also remember my dad chuckling at me and winking as we left the house. I didn’t have the same feelings for her and she kept trying to chat to me all the way through the film, which was bloody annoying. 
On the way back she insisted that her feet were hurting because of the shoes and needed support, so I walked back through the town centre with her clinging to me like I was her boyfriend. I had to let her down gently when we got back. We were both about 17 years old.

14. What is the glue that keeps couples together?
Humour and silliness helps – particularly in my case. I can be quite a funny guy when I want to be and I always try to make Mrs PM laugh. She is also very funny. We always have fun.

15.  What was your first crush.
I only ever had crushes on famous actresses like Linda Carter or Jaclyn Smith so it was one of those two.

16. When did your parents talk to you about the birds and the bees?
They never did. I heard by word of mouth and from friends. I remember hearing about the deed at the age of about seven or eight and being totally repulsed by the thought of what had to be done to produce children. I think my old man knew that I knew so he didn’t bother telling me.

17. What is your greatest achievement?
I would say it’s probably creating two wonderful kids. 

18. Were you close to your parents growing up?
Yes, I would say so. I was closer to my dad then my mum but generally we were fine as a family.

19. What was the most life-changing event you’ve ever experienced?
Going to university. I left Walsall as a naïve, spotty and scared young man and left university as an adult.

20. Have you ever had a falling out with a friend? What happened?
I wouldn’t say that I fell out with my friend Oswald (not his real name - obviously); we just lost touch and drifted apart because of circumstance. 
For many years as a child, Oswald was my best mate. He was almost exactly the same age as me (within a couple of weeks) and we were inseparable as friends. Things started to change when he left school at 16 to become a builder with his dad, while I carried on at school with A-Levels. For those couple of years we were still best mates but he had money, a second-hand car while I was still studying and broke. I think that’s when we started to drift apart. 
The final straw was when I went to university. I came back to Walsall at the end of my first year and my experiences and his were diverging. I was a different person and so was he. We went out for a few beers and ended up having a huge argument. I remember waking up the next morning thinking that something had broken between us and that the argument was the result of built up frustration. 
I went back to university and basically that killed our close friendship. I spent the remaining summers visiting friends from university and travelling in Europe and then I moved to Manchester.
I did see him on a return trip to Walsall to visit my mum a year later and discovered that he had managed to get a girl pregnant and had to marry her. I hadn’t been invited to the wedding. We had a quick chat and a laugh about the old times but it was clear that we had both moved on. 
The last I heard, was about twenty years ago when, again visiting my mum, I bumped into his mother. She told me that Oswald would love to see me again, so I gave her my phone number to give to him.
He has never called. If he did though, I would definitely go for a couple of beers with him.


14 comments:

Bev Sykes said...

I have to say I look forward to your Sunday Stealing entries each week. I love reading your answeers. Interesting that in your list of top 10 TV shows, I have only seen two, Dexter and Breaking Bad (and the only reason I have seen Breaking Bad is because my son loves it and has seen it so much he knows all the dialog from all seasons and it's on in the house many times for hours at a time, while he works). I alao love that as I am wowrking my way through these questions from everyone, so far EVERYONE has listed Trump's election as the scariest story. An even scarier story would be his RE-election.

LA Paylor said...

I so enjoyed this... according to your answers to #4 you can not be an idiot! I agree with humor, life is cuckoo so one might as well laugh at it. (I can't laugh at the horror of #4 though)
LeeAnna posting at Not afraid of color

Kwizgiver said...

So many interesting answers, I don't know where to begin!

I'm not a fan of rhubarb, either.

Elephant's Child said...

Some thought provoking responses today. Thank you.
I quite like rhubarb. It was offal (specifically liver) which was forced on me. I totally understand that even decades later it can make you feel unwell.
I still mourn losing a friendship of over forty years. We were both tired/stressed/unwell and things were said which our calmer selves could have avoided. We had been growing apart anyway but a drift would have been a much better ending than the fracture. I hope that she is doing well, where ever she is now.

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Bev,

Will Trump be re-elected?

Who knows. I've given up after Brexit and having a total clown as our PM.

:o)

Cheers

PM

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi LA,

Yes indeed - the world is getting crazy - and I didn't even mention Coronavirus.

:o)

Cheers

PM

CountryDew said...

I enjoyed Babylon 5 - good answer. I forgot there is a Nobel in Literature, so thanks for the reminder. Can't see it happening but then I never saw #45 coming, either.

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Kwizgiver,

I only know two people who like it - and they are weird.

:o)

Cheers

PM

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi EC,

Yes - I hope Oswald is doing well. I'm certain he is - he was a nice fella.

:o)

Cheers

PM

LA Paylor said...

you got me on the accent thing!!! I watch a lot of BBC shows, but cannot do the musical accents from the three areas you mentioned. American has a lot of accents too, most I can mimic, but I had a friend from NZ and never got that one down either. I love accents. LeeAnna (this has been fun)

Stacy said...

I thought I'd throw in my support for whatever food you wanted to get rid of since you agreed with me about eggplant or aubergine (see, I'm learning!), but I happen to love rhubarb. My mom just brought me a jar of strawberry-rhubarb conserve that she made and I am a happy camper!

Nice to see some photos of you. You don't look like the nerdy fellow you've been telling us you are!

Enjoy the week ahead!

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi CD,

Give it a go - you never know.

:o)

Cheers

PM

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi LeeAnna,

I can only do the "standard" American accent - and I'm pretty poor at that. I did work with a Kiwi once and also a South African and, while I was in their presence, I could just about pull it off - not now though.

:o)

Cheers

PM

Plastic Mancunian said...

Hi Stacey,

OH NO! Not another rhubarb lover.

Yes - I was 42 years old when those photos were taken. I am a little older and craggier now - but I still think I look a little nerdy.

:o)

Cheers

PM